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My helper likes to comment like *oh baby so poor thing, this mommy dont do this and that for u* right in front of me which makes me uncomfortable. She touch my LO also made me uneasy. I never get confinement lady or even let her take care of the kid coz i have trust issue. i find it better to take care of my baby myself esp when he’s only a month old. Plus she’s not even competent with house work. I dont want to tell her off coz she’s older than me. Any advice ?

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Best to communicate to your helper directly. You’re still the employer and if there is something that needs to be fixed, best to explain before the feelings of resentment slowly seeps in. Try it like “I’ll appreciate if you can let me discipline my child on my own terms, I understand you have the best interests of my child...) something like that. If it still doesn’t get through, just be direct.

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