instinct or paranoia?

Hello mga momshies? How will you be able to distinguish instinct from paranoia? Example, you have a strong feeling that your husband is cheating pero wala namn sa kinikilos nya proved that he’s cheating. Open lang phone nya, seldom nag chi check ng social media, alam ko lahat ng password nya. Kasama ako sa mga lakad kahit pang barkada or kahit work-related out of town. Walang akong napansin na pagbabago sa kanya. Mapag aruga pa rin, sweet at sinusurprisa parin ako during occassions. Nahirapan na akong mag trust sa kanya kasi minsan na siya may ginawang kalokohan, kahit pa sabihing fling2x lang. Part of mind says he’s being faithful yet part of it says, “of course, gagawin lahat para hindi mahalata”. We are on our 16 years of marriage at may dalawang teenagers na anak na kami. Tama ba ang instinct ko? Or talagang paranoid lang ako? Thank you in advance sa may ma comment dyan.?

Anonymous

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Maybe you're just being paranoid lang po. Best thing you can do is to give him second chance. second chance where you'll be giving your trust again. Kasi the more na pag-iisipan mo sya na he is cheating on you, the more mo lang iisipin na mgagawa nya ulit yun sayo knowing that he is giving his effort towards the marriage naman to work. Try to lessen your worries and try to enjoy the moments you have together until you both feel na you guys are whole again. :)

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Anonymous

7y ago

May point po kayo. Thank you po.

Hi mommy paranoid ka lang. We have the same case before. Ilang beses nagcheat si husband before nung bf/gf pa lng kami. Sobrang paranoid ako nun lahat ng kilos nya may nasisita ako pero eventually nasa isip ko lng pala ung mga un kc hnd na nya ulit ginawa. He promised me na hindi na nya gagawin ulit lalo na at kasal na kmi for 2 years. 😊

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Anonymous

7y ago

Hehehe... tama po kayo mommy. Halos lahat nalang ng ginagawa nya, hinahanapan ko ng ibang meaning. Thank you po.

Kapag ganyan mommy, hindi naman masama kung magtiwala kayo sa husband mo. Kahit sabihin na nating nagawa niya dati, ang mga tao naman ay pwedeng magbago. Mas makakasama sa relationship siguro yung naaapektuhan na ng paranoia yung buhay mag-asawa ninyo. Tiwala lang! :D

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Anonymous

7y ago

Thank you po😍😍😍

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Kadalasan, may rason kung bakit tayo kinukutuban. Pero sa tagal ng pagsasama niyo, dapat kaya mo na iweigh kung ano ba yung totoo sa hindi sa mga sinasabi niya. Mas maigi pa din na constant yung open communication niyo.

Anonymous

7y ago

Thank you po😍😍😍

To clear the air out, why not ask your husband about it though do it in an unsuspecting so he won't feel as if he's being judged. Sometimes talking about could help gain trust with each other.

Minsan tama talaga ang hinala ng babae, pero kung wala ka naman makita, malamang mommy paranoid ka lang. :D

Anonymous

7y ago

Hehehe... thank you po.

Home Random Talk hello mga momshies how will you be able to distinguish instinct from paranoia example you have a strong feeling that your husband is cheating wala namn sa kinikilos nya proved that he s cheating open lang phone nya seldom nag chi check ng social media alam ko lahat ng password nya kasama ako sa mga lakad kahit pang barkada or kahit work related out of town walang akong napansin na pagbabago sa kanya mapag aruga pa rin sweet at sinusurprisa parin ako during occassions nahirapan na akong mag trust