Upset with hubby

This sounds like a major project and his bonus probably hinges on this. With a baby, increased expenditures and an ongoing pandemic, he will be worried about doing better at his career and not chalking up any black marks with his boss. If it were me I will try to be understanding and trust that his heart is in the right place and this simply is for the best. I feel that as we're partners in the marriage, we should support one another's careers and goals if we can; if it's possible for me to take care of myself, I do not want my husband to have to drop his work responsibilities and goals for me. I'm sure his heart is hurting too that he might have to miss out on the early days with the baby. Has he arranged for emergency contacts and help for you, and can he start later/leave earlier from work as long as it doesn't impact the project schedule?

Sending hugs ❤️ My hubby prioritise work too, but in this environment where so many people are losing their jobs and with a newborn on the way, I’ve learnt to let go and allow him to prioritise his work first. The money/promotion would be helpful for the family, esp covering the CL cost 😂 So I just suck it up. when the situation gets better or if I start working and can relieve his burden, I expect him to prioritise family more.

Hi mummy, I feel you as I went through almost the same during my pregnancy and even after giving birth. The nurses are helpful and everything will b fine during your hospital stay. It is good that you have CL to help you. I join yoga class during pregnancy and just talk to my mum to calm myself and its no use talking to my husband as too tired to quarrel. Cheer up and you can do it yourself and baby needs you most. Hugss

FTM recently and used to think hubby prioritise work over bb. but after give birth actually first month the bb is enough to keep u and cl busy. First month hubby not really much use, just focus in getting well and learning how to take care of the bb will keep you occupied. maybe ask your hubby to take a week paternity leave when cl is gone is more important.

This isn't about pregnancy hormones but all pregnant wife will feel upset including myself. My husband used to prioritise his work when I was pregnant with my first child so I truly understand you. Maybe, you can try to talk to him again. Cheer up :)

I guess its not very nice to change start date. At least u hv a cl! Dun worry so much.