do u let ur MIL to take care ur NB?

Feel abit contradition, MIL want to handle NB everything from morning till night. Feel grateful that got a "nanny" help to take care everything but on the other side feel lesser bonding time with NB.... especially everytime im feeding my LO,my MIL wan to intervene, say she will do it. Even heard she said wan to carry my NB home to stay with her..currently NB still staying with me. what do u think?

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Nope. I wouldn’t. I wanted to be a hands on mummy right from the beginning. Feeding my LO is my special bonding time with baby. I also don’t agree with how my MIL does certain things. So I rather be more tired than let my MIL take care unless you need more time to recover from childbirth.

5y ago

i reli worry if nxtime my LO will like my MIL more than me...coz my MIL always by his side... the only bonding time with my NB os only when my MIL sleeping....lol