Ever since some issue between me and my husband our relationship turn plain and sour. Don't get me wrong, he is still trying his best and he didn't have another party too. Wonder is it normal for relationship to turn plain?

Try having more heart-to-heart talks. One thing I've realised is that males and females view things very differently. For example, sometimes ladies just want to "whine"/complain but the guys would instinctively want to offer solutions (problem-solve). So, at times, we really just need to tell them point-blank what we are thinking or what we really want. Keep the guessing/mind-reading to a minimal and that may help.