Overstay visitor

During postpartum, i dont mind people to come over. But to overstay, its a no for me. What more to say if its your in law. Had them coming 2nd day postpartum, yet they go back at 2am 2AM. Whereby i was draining with lack of sleep and recovery from C section. And then 3 weeks later , I tot they have saw me suffered with back pain and tiredness, and even I've advice my husb i will sleep by 12 if they wont be going back, but nah. I feel so tired talking about my in laws. Its like they have no common sense about people recovering.

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I think you can ask your husband to talk to their parents. It would be easier for him to talk too. Your in laws might somehow forgot how it is like to just gave birth to a baby since it was many many years ago. If I were you, I would just go and sleep, and not entertain or host anybody once it is my rest time. It’s my house too. Let your husband hosts his parents instead.

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