parenting duties
Do you split parenting duties with your husband?
My ex-husband, as much as he would argue that he "would help" never really did helped out. If I asked him to watch over the baby while I rest, instead of putting him to sleep, he keeps him awake and when my son gets too tired and restless, he hands him over back to me to handle while he goes to sleep/watches tv. If I asked him to prepare milk, the water powed ratio is never the same. He never follows the actual proper ratio so I will end up throwing the milk away and making a new one all over. If I want to shower and tells him to keep a lookout for my son who's asleep, I'd still have to rush out from the shower anyway if my son cries because he's "too tired". This was on top of his infidelity. I guess what Diana said is true. Spiltting responsibilities is very important because it could cause a very big strain on the relationship.
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