Did you get disappointed when you found out your baby’s gender is not what you’ve expected?

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For me it doesn't matter whether it is a boy or girl as long as they are healthy. It is common to be kind of disappointed if your baby's gender is not what you expected but as long as you do not take it out on the child or you still love the child unconditionally no matter what. That is fine. I think it is wrong in a sense if you start disowning the child or treating the child badly because "you didn't get what you wanted". In this world, we do not get what we want and sometimes you have to count your blessings with whatever you have. There are parents who just want a child so badly and have all the capabilities to be a parent but... They just can't have one and that to me is heartbreaking. Whereas you have parents who are abusive as f and pop babies out like they are vending machines.

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