Did you ever have discussion with partner on whether you should adopt or have your own child? Is adoption meant for infertile couples only?

If that is an option you are considering, it is definitely best to discuss with your partner. Share the reasons or any considerations that you have for thinking about this option. Always good to know what your other half think about this option. I have a colleague who adopted due to medical reasons. The process may take awhile so that would be something to keep in mind too. Here are more information to aid in your understanding of the adoption process in singapore: http://sg.theasianparent.com/want-to-adopt-a-child/