Sahm how abt u?

Did u regret ur decision? I am a sahm and quitted my job... I saw my friends who had helper n I was like why I choose this path to sahm and do alot things...some placed their infant earlier in infant care...I managed my baby better now,just looking back wondering if I chose different decision,will I be happier? What decision u made any regret? How u cope with it?

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hi! I was SAHM for 2.5yrs, just recently when back to workforce after my son stabilised in nursery 😊 to be honest, it was the most tiring, difficult, under appreciated role I ever took on! and I dun even get paid... but, it pays in other unimaginable ways... being there when my son could lift his head, turn onto his tummy, ate his own toes, shake the little toy rattle I bought him even before he was born gleefully 🥰 financial independence is important to me, but I chose to be there for my son's every little milestone... he is only a baby once ♥️ $ can always earn back later 😂 my husband and I also not comfy with the idea of a maid caring for our kids... no offense to others, just our preference. the last thing I want is my kids running to the maid crying cos I scolded them... currently is opposite 😂

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Jayne Lee

mommy to 2 hunny bunnies

2y ago

must continue trying lah, dun give up! my own 2 cents: I had told myself to have only basic expectations, not to expect the same paygrade as before.. I also applied contractual roles and even temps, which I usually would not..

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