Now preparing for our baby girl's first birthday. And kasama sa preparation ung firstborn namin na boy (3 and a half y.o). Bilang kuya eh sobrang loving and overprotective sa sister nya. I dont think may jealousy on his part kasi we make sure na balanse ang pagtingin namin sa kanila. Kung kailangan ng baby na oras lagi namin ineexplain sa kuya nya at the same time bumabawi kami sa kanya. Pareho din silang napapagalitan if needed be. Walang favoritism
Children at that age I think still don't know what jelousy is.. even if hindi nia birthday, they believe its theirs too.. all they feel is excitement kasi madaming playmates, balloons, cakes, gifts and etc. For sure sia magboblow ng candle on behalf of the baby brother at sia din taga open ng gifts. So no need to worry. The older one will be fine. π
Make older child help prepare for the party and have him/her get a gift for younger sibling. Make him as excited too. Important na Involved sya. Even if itβs not his/her party, he/she will enjoy.
Mas maganda na iparamdam ang pagmamahal sa kanila habang bata pa