Does your hubby follow you to all appointments?

Currently still in 1st trimester. I went to most of the appointments by myself as I did not want my husband to worry and in fact didn't tell him when I go for some of the follow ups. Recently he was angry when he found out that I went to the appt by myself and didn't inform him (actually he won't go as well but just wanted to know). But he doesn't know that each visit is stressful for me as idk if baby is doing well or if there's anything. I didn't want to stress him out too and rather be independent.

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Maybe it's to each their own depending on your relationship dynamic? for me I wouldn't be able to imagine my husband not coming to an appointment- it's like it won't even occur to him. Of course it's also as long as I want him there, but to him the first thought is that we're in this together. obviously if you're not comfortable then totally up to you - most imp is you're not stressed. but communication is key leh in a relationship. just explain and keep it open.

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