Obsessive MIL or sensitive me?

Currently I am having my confinement. Started to get annoyed by my mil who tried to interfere me on how to handle my infant. 1) Finally managed to get my bb fall aslp, 2 hrs later she went to wake her up to bath. 2) Trying to stop Infant to sleep with us in same room. Keep giving excuses say I need to rest and sleep throughout the night. (In fact I need to breastfeed her) 3) Not giving me much chance to hold and cuddle my bb and take away my job to feed unless my hubby told her firmly i need to breastfeed her. Heard from my hubby she claiming just wanted me to rest more... Can anyone advise if I am sensitive or facing an obsessive mil over my bb?

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Hi! My mother inlaw is like that.. I ended up losing my right as Mum to my daughter and it all started when I allowed her to take care of my baby during confinement. Now my child dont listen to me, she only listen to my mother in law, she dont sleep beside me because she used to sleeping with her alrd. I cant even bring my daughter out without her permission! Lesson Learned: 1.) talk to your husband, tell him you dont like being interfered. 2.) learn to draw line. If you will just keep quite, she will think its ok. 3.) dont leave with your mother inlaw!

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4y ago

Did you stay together with your mother inlaw?