Husband likes to follow girls on social media

Am currently 35 weeks pregnant. Have been feeling so so down and uncomfortable that my husband likes to follow females on social media. I cant help but think its because my figure is big now and I look like a whale pregnant. He doesn’t seem attracted to me anymore although he still treats me nicely. We were last intimate months ago because he werent interested and complained that he is tired. Anyone’s hubs is like that? Truth be told, I went on his phone to unfollow a couple of female influencers he seems to particularly like just to see if he notices that they were gone. And then bam the next day he is following them again.

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seems like your husband is just dealing with his own needs.... my husband was very frank with me that my bump is a turn off for him sexually... I cried and he consoled me saying "it's not that I dont love you, I just cant get turned on seeing your bump... and to know that inside your bump is our baby, I am unable to want sex..." I read lots of reddit posts and apparently men are meant to be turned off by pregnant bumps. it's a male's biological way of protecting the pregnancy. so feel better that it's just your husband and majority of men's way to protect the baby... I just let my husband look at other females. I know he just looks to take care of his needs while also taking care of the pregnancy. if it still bothers you, tell him calmly that you feel uncomfortable he looks at other women and how it upsets you that he might not be attracted to you/your body anymore. have a chat and dont start blaming him immediately...

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