Hubby a help or hindrance?

They are just clumsy at times and they dun have mother instinct after giving birth . Just like animals their first time give birth the mother animals naturally knows wad to do . Guys takes awhile . They might not know how to care for the baby but their job are more on the help wash things up more on support .they might be blur so we just got to guide them . But some guys abit bo chup want easy easy ,not like woman abit OCD in cleanliness . Just have a talk with them n mentally prepare your husband like tell him wads the importance of cleanliness In babies . Like me i would prefer to do things myself but sometimes we got to trust the husbands too n make them feel involved . But how u want to look after ur kid they got to respect ur decision .