Feeling down

My baby is 17 days old and in abt 2 weeks time my nanny will be leaving and I will be taking care of my own baby. I don't even know the basics of carrying my baby and just learning now. It doesn't help that my nanny always say if I do this to my baby I will break his arm etc. (She showing me) Ask her to show me how she shower baby she says 我学不到的。I don't have in laws or parents to help too. My husband is helping to take care of baby too but when he goes to work I am all alone. I want to be confident to take care of my baby but it is demoralising. Also baby is now more attached to nanny. When I hear my baby cries my heart feels frustrated.

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Horrible nanny. You HAVE to learn. She is trying to make herself indispensible even though she is not going to stay around for much longer. Feedback her attitude to the agency and make sure you learn as much as you can. Practice practice practice! You can do it mama! Baby WILL forget the nanny. I certainly don't recall my first month of life and I highly doubt anyone will.

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6y ago

I was looking forward to nanny, and also communicated with an open mind but after communicating for sometime, I realised she is always pushing her ideas and do not cater to what we want instead. Spoken to her many times but she does not listen. Only see she took care of baby well so close one eye. Now at her 3rd week, really hope my confinement ends soon so I don't have to 受气。Ya u are right, babies dun remember anyway 😄

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