Gender Disappointment

Ask ko lang mga mommies, ako lang ba dito yung nalungkot after ko malaman yung gender ng baby? Gustong gusto po kase ng husband ko ng baby boy, and lagi nya sinasabi na sya hands on sya kay baby if boy. Lahat ng kapatid nya na apat, puro boy panganay, sya lang naiiba, panganay namin girl. Nallungkot lang ako mga mommies kase kitang kita ko yung disappointment ng hubby ko nung sabihin ni doc na 90% girl baby namin. Nagmsg pa si hubby sa ate nya kung pede palit nalang daw sila ng baby, kanya yung boy kay ate nya ung girl namin. Masakit para saakin na first time mom rin, kase gusto ko lang makitang masaya din si hubby para sa amin ni baby.. Ako as mom, wala akong ibang prayer kundi healthy and strong baby para sa amin. Mga mommy penge naman advice, pano ma cope ung gender Disappointment? ? Thank u

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Mommsieee, to tell you honestly...dapat Hindi Tayo makakaramdam ng disappointment instead be greatfull and feel blessed. Talk to your husband... Feeling that way is so childish (I'm sorry for the term) if he really wants to have a a baby boy , you both should ask or consult to your ob before conceiving.. there are ways, position and methods... But the way he acted is so childish....be thankful for that little angel and pray for the good health and safety of the baby instead being disappointed... Whether girl or boy dapat Ang priority is to see your baby healthy,safe, and happy child when she comes out... You really need to talk about it momsh to your hubby .. Kasi baka pag labas n baby Hindi nya ma feel Kay daddy Ang real love... At mag cause to ng problem in the future if he will still wish n boy.. Pray momsh for the health and safety nyo no baby... Communication is the key ... Love love love. God bless.

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