Gender Disappointment

Please do not get offended with what I will say. Your husband does not deserve your baby. The fact na gusto niya ipagpalit yung sarili nyng anak sa iba just to satisfy his ego??? That is not a fatherly love. Its purely ego. Dapat ipagdasal nya na healthy baby nyo. Di bale kung babae or lalaki. But the fact na ipagpapalit nya? What the he**? Ako ang tangi kong dasal sa Diyos before was mabuntis ako. Trying ro conceice for 7 years dati. Finally nabuntis ako. Pinagbigyan ako ng Diyos. Now who am I pa to demand from God na gusto ko ganito gender ng baby? The fact na pinagbigyan nya ako ng chance maging nanay is more than enough for me. Second, my unborn baby was diagnosed to have Cystic kidney. Ang tanging dasal ko nanaman now is mag heal ang baby ko sa tiyan. Now after reading your story about your husband willing to swap babies juat because he want a boy, makes me so angry. Ang laki ng problema ng husband mo. Sana isipin na lang nya ung problema nya is not even a problem, if it is for him then icompare nya sa ibang nanay at tatay na may problemang tulad sakin?????? How ungrateful is he! Maam pls dont get offended. Im not bashing you. Im just stating facts. And as for you the Mom of the child, wala kang ibang dapat gawin kung di siguraduhin na maayos ang condition ng baby mo. You should not be worrying about your husband’s wants. Bring him to a phsychologists. Beacause oara sakin phsychologically soeaking my problema with what he wants to happen