Gender Disappointment

Ask ko lang mga mommies, ako lang ba dito yung nalungkot after ko malaman yung gender ng baby? Gustong gusto po kase ng husband ko ng baby boy, and lagi nya sinasabi na sya hands on sya kay baby if boy. Lahat ng kapatid nya na apat, puro boy panganay, sya lang naiiba, panganay namin girl. Nallungkot lang ako mga mommies kase kitang kita ko yung disappointment ng hubby ko nung sabihin ni doc na 90% girl baby namin. Nagmsg pa si hubby sa ate nya kung pede palit nalang daw sila ng baby, kanya yung boy kay ate nya ung girl namin. Masakit para saakin na first time mom rin, kase gusto ko lang makitang masaya din si hubby para sa amin ni baby.. Ako as mom, wala akong ibang prayer kundi healthy and strong baby para sa amin. Mga mommy penge naman advice, pano ma cope ung gender Disappointment? ? Thank u

773 Replies
undefined profile icon
Magsulat ng reply

My hubby and i, wanted to have a baby girl too.. But, when i take an ultrasound we found out that it's boy.. Yes, we felt dissapointed at first 'ung nasabi nya na nga lng ng nakita na ng OB ko ung gender ko "is okay lng" which is mafi'feel mo tlga sa voice nya na dissapointed sya.. But, right after that wlang nagbago, like how he talk to our baby in my tummy, how he kiss, nothing has change.. All you/we need is accept.. What gender of our baby had gave.. Still it's a blessing.. So, just accept, with all your heart, besides it's baby.. It's your baby.😇😍 So, think positive.. Soon, your hubby will be happy at what your baby gender is..

Magbasa pa