confinement period

im a ftm going through confinement alone! forget about cooking, forget about laundry and all other houseworks 😅🤷🏻‍♀️ the baby will demand all your attention and you need all the sleep u can get while baby sleeps. settled our meals by ordering confinement meal/tingkat meal packages. hubs helped out with laundry before going to work. all other chores are really otot (own time own target). so u might want to avoid visitors coming to your house during confinement 😅 i struggled abit with my post natal massage cos not easy to get someone to help u watch baby while u do the massage. thank goodness my massage lady was very understanding and was willing to stop in between a few times so that i can tend to baby and she will help tend to baby too. not easy but our baby needs us! we have to pull through it ultimately! and husband's support or help after he comes home from work will be super helpful! but yea, if you could afford confinement nanny, why not? 🙂 good luck! 💪🏻😊