my in laws said can take care of their first grandchild. however, there qas uncertainty if in laws can cope after baby was borned. i had to find infant care last minute. the important thing to consider is whether the parents or in laws is fit to take care of baby and if they have recent experience. my in laws has a difficult time because she has lost touch and baby these days are no longer as easy to take care as last time. suggest you talk to your friends and ask your parents and in laws to talk to their friends and see if they are alright. as long as there is doubt, send to infant care