Ano ang mga considerations na dapat pagisipan pag nagrequest mag sleep over yung anak nyo sa bahay ng best friend nila? Especially if they're ten-years-old and below?

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OMG! I'm not seeing myself giving a nod to my kid's sleepover request when she's just 10 and below. I just find it too early. Lumaki kasi ako na never nagsleep over sa friend until nag-college ako. Hndi pa yun pinagplanuhan and walang choice ang parents ko kasi Ondoy noon, di ako makauwi. Strict kasi parents ko ika nga. And agree din naman ako and hindi rin ako comfortable doing sleepovers. Yung sila yung andito sa bahay okay pa. In short hindi ako papayag. Saka na lang pag malaki na sya and can take full responsibilities to her actions. Yung mapagsasabihan na. Pag bata pa kasi nasa kakulitan stage pa yan eh. Kung sa relative siguro pwede pero pag-iisipan ko pa rin. What I'll consider with my decision for later are: proximity and safety of the friend's place, health condition ng friend (I dunno yet how I'll do this), how long she's stay, who's going to supervise them and other friend who will join.

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pwede naman kung kilalang kilala mo na pamilya ng bestfriend nya , at kung di babae anak mo din mahirap na mag tiwala sa panahon ngayon miski nga batang lalaki namomolestsya dapat aware. msyado naman din bata kung kahit 15 yrs old nalang baka pwede pa yan at kung malapit lang bahay nung bestfriend nya mahirap kasi mahigpit pero mahirap din maging maluwag remember magulang ka ang lagi mong unang una talaga iisipin ay yung kaligtasan ng anak di yung kung mainis sya pag naghigpit ka di ka bag hihigpit nag iingat lang.

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Noong bata pa kami pag magpapaalam kaming makikitulog sa mga kamag anak na kapitbahay lang namin "hindi" agad ang sagot ng mama namin sa isip ko noon "parang makikitulog lang naman ipagbabawal pa" ngayon may sarili na akong mga anak, kung iisipin ko hndi rin ako papayag pag nagpaalam na din sakin anak ko. Dati hndi ko maintindihan bakit ayaw pumayag ngayon intinding intindi ko na

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Naku, I don't think a child at that very young age should be allowed to sleep over at someone else's house kahit sabihin mo pa na trusted mo naman ung family. I don't see the need why young children have to do that when thay can play all day naman at their house or your house then uwi din pag gabi na with sundo of course. Iayon ang mga decision sa nababagay sa age nila.

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hindi ko naranasan mag sleep over sa kaibgan ko o kahit kamag anak hanggng college. ang rason ng tatay ko, "may kama ka dito, kaya dito ka matutulog", ganun din gagawin ko sa anak ko, mapa lalaki o babae man. mabuti Ng mahigpit kesa maging Lolo ng maaga😂 baka sa susunod anak ko na nag po-post dito Kung paano sasabhin sa magulang na buntis/nakabuntis 💩

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I think kids 10years old and below are too young for sleepovers sa bahay ng bestfriend or classmate. Even if kilala ko yung magulang ng bestfriend ng anak ko, I don't know their family dynamics. Hindi ko din kilala yung iba nila kasama sa bahay. Sa dami ng mga masamang nangyayari ngayon, mas mabuti ng maging maingat kaya hindi ko muna siya papayagan.

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I would let my child sleep over if I knew the family was trustworthy. When I was a kid, my parents allowed me to go to some sleepovers, but also didn't allow me to go to others if they didn't feel comfortable or secure about the people hosting it. I had a lot of fun on those sleepovers so I think it would be a good experience for your kid as well.

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For a kids below 10 years old, I will definitely not allow him to sleepover at a friend's house. Ayaw ko masanay sya at an early age na pwede naman pala mgsleep over basta may certain conditions. I want to instill in my child's mind that there are things that he can't do yet because he's still too young for it. That is part of disciplining.

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A big no - no for me. Why would a child below 10 years old sleep over a friend's house? I won't even allow my child to go camping overnight unless kasama ako. At this very young age, we have to be over protective of our children. May tamang panahon para sa mga ganyang bagay, and hindi sa age na ganyan ang tamang panahon.

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Kung Responsible naba sya, kung kaya nya na sarili nya since below 10 pa lang, Safe ba yun Place, Maganda ba ang Family Background ng Bestfriend nya, Gaano kalayo ang bahay nun Bestfriend nya sa Bahay nyo. kung kaya nya ba mag update sayo time to time at kung good influence naman sa kanya yun bestfriend nya

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