Hindi ko maexplain nararamdamanan ko sa ngayon

Ang ate kanina, naglabas ng hinaing. At the young age, idk parang ganun na rin. Kasi kanina naglalambing. Niyayakap ako tapos biglang sabi nya nagwork daw ang mommy, nagwork din ang daddy, wala na daw sya bestfriend, na wala daw sya kasama. Sabi ko nagwowork ang mommy pero dito lang naman sa tabi nya. Wfh kasi ako. Pero sagot nya si daddy daw nya umaalis. Tapos ilang minutes lang lumuluha na sya. One time hinatid kami ng daddy sa school, sabi nya "I miss u daddy." Sabay pilit na bumaba ang daddy para ihatid sya sa loob. Nung bumaba ang daddy sobrang happy nya. Tho hinahatid naman talaga nya sya tsaka binabantayan sya ng daddy pag wala sya pasok. Nabusy kasi sya that time na di talaga makahatid. Parang nasaktan naman ako na naguilty. Bata pa nya 4yrs old pero ganun na napifeel nya. Paano nalang kung ang work ko tulad ng daddy na kelangan din lumabas. Isa din to sa reason kaya siguro wala pa sya kapatid kasi maski ako diko alam paano hahatiin ang oras ko sa dalawa. Ayoko na maneglect sya kasi alam ko na di maiiwasan na malessen ung attention sakanya. Been there, ang hirap maging panganay sa totoo lang. Gusto ko mabuntis pero parang napaisip ako na parang di pa nga talaga ako ready.

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I think it's good that your daughter is able to express her feelings to you ☺️ It's ok, her feelings are valid and emotions like sadness are normal naman po 🙂 Kahit ako kapag umaalis ang hubby ko ng matagalan, tinatanong nya ko kung ok lang ako, sinasabi ko na "ok lng sakin na umalis ka, i want you to enjoy, but it doesn't change the fact na nalulungkot ako kapag wala ka". I don't say it to make him feel bad or guilty, nalulungkot lang talaga ako. Hindi naman ako nagmumukmok, or nagiging disfunctional dahil sa lungkot, it's just what it is. What I'm trying to say is that even as adults, we feel these emotions like sadness, and it's ok and it's valid. Over the years we have learned to manage it. So I think it's the same for your child who's just learning how to manage her emotions. Her feelings are valid and normal, try not to take it personally ☺️ As long as you don't think that she's harming herself due to sadness. Basta iacknowledge and validate mo lng ang feelings nya, and be there for her. The fact that she's able to freely express her feelings to you already makes me believe that you're doing great jobs as parents ☺️

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Home Toddler ang ate kanina naglabas ng hinaing young age idk parang ganun na rin kasi