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"A Mother's Silent Scream" Being a stay at home Mom without a yaya and a helper is ngarag. If you see a Mother in social media na nakakalabas labas ng bahay ng siya lang, nakakapag work out, nakakakain ng maayos at nakukuha pang magpaganda. Believe me, that Mother has a village! Tayong mga walang back up, yung onting oras na nababakante pag natulog si baby ayun na yun lahat. Liligo, kakain, lalaba, linis, hugas plato, CP at raket. Wala tayong time para mag solo flight. Masaya maging Ina. Yung joy na binibigay ng bata is priceless. Something a Mother will not trade for anything. Pero hindi porket masaya at fulfilling eh hindi na namin need ng tulong. Hindi porket we made parenting easy eh wala na kaming ibang needs. We are separate individuals. We have our own needs. We need our own time. This is the saddest thing about being a Mom. You are married, but you are raising your kids alone. Mula pag gising ng anak mo, hanggang pagtulog si Mama. Wala man lang break. Gusto mo man umalis ng bahay, but you have to bring the kids. Gusto mo umalis mag isa pero di mo magawa because of guilt. There's something at the back of her head saying pag iniwanan mo silang lahat sa bahay, disaster ang mangyayari. Married but raising the kids alone is completely one sided. That's even worse than being a single parent. Atleast kung single parent ka, alam mo na ikaw lang in this. But if you're married, you expect na dalawa kayo dapat. Pero bakit parang ikaw lang mag isa? Mothers need time for themselves, too. We enjoy motherhood, that's 101% accurate. Pero hindi ibig sabihin ito nalang yung gagawin namin hanggang mamatay kami. Mom and Dad should be equal when raising the kids. Hindi dapat pipitch in lang yung isa pag good mood na. Hindi pwedeng pipili ka lang ng oras mo kung kailan convenient sayo. Do your part as a parent. We don't need to constantly remind dads na ikaw naman. Be sensitive to your wife's needs. Be sensitive to her emotions. Look at her, blooming paba siya? May lakas paba? Need ba niya matulog muna? Pagod na kaya siya? Yes, pagod na si Ma. She's screaming inside, "Pagod na pagod na ko! Gusto ko mag isa. Gusto ko umalis. Gusto ko maging tamad. Gusto ko magpakalasing. Gusto ko ng time out. Pagod na ko." Hindi mo maririnig to. But a Mother's Silent Scream are her tears.

I couldn't agree more!

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Hello po! palove naman po ng pic ni baby. salamat po! https://www.facebook.com/102855231529428/posts/196101238871493/

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sino po dito mga namimigay ng damit at gamit ng baby girl? pwede po ako maka hingi sa inyo Mga mommies? #1stimemom #firstbaby #pregnancy

saan po lugar nyo mommy? marami po ako pre loved na damit ng baby girl 🙂

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Ano po ba feeling ng tumitigas ang tyan? kapag malapit na manganak..? yung parang bumubukol ba yun? kapag bumubukol si baby?

yes po mommy, isang halimbawa lang po yun

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hello po. ask ko lng po kung pwede b ako kumain ng chia seed at saan po sya pwedeng ihalo? safe po b un sa buntis? TIA #firstbaby #1stimemom #pregnancy

Pwede nmn dw poh s buntis. Mas ok poh sya ilagay s lemon juice or kalamansi juice babad nio muna s tubig bgo ihalo s juice. Pg isinabay poh kc s timpla di mxado nlambot ung chia mdyo crunchy p sya. 😅

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Mga momsshiess may tanong po ako.. unemployed kasi ako. 2016 last na work ko at nahulugan ang sss ko. may makukuha paba ako benefits if ever na babayaran ko from nung araw na hindi ko nahulugan, hanggang sa kailangan na contribution now para maka kuha ako ng sss benefits or hindi na ako makakahabol? sino po dito same case kona ganito? TIA 😍😍 #pregnancy #1stimemom #firstbaby

kung hu2lugan nyo po may maku2ha po kau..

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any idea for Gender reveal na isasabay sana sa birthday ko. thank you po.

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may party po ba or ipopost niyo lang online? alam niyo po ba yung gender nung baby niyo or may ibang magseset ng party para sainyo?

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Threatened Abortion

sino po dito Na diagnosed ng threatened abortion? 14 weeks po ako..

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Had the same case po when I was preggy, bedrest for one month po ako then take meds na pampakapit and ngayon okay naman na po si baby 🙂

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Bawal ba mag gitara ang buntis?

Hindi, why naman?

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Pa Suggest Naman Po Ng Name Na Unisex Po Na Unique. Thank You.

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