Birthclub: September 2024

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SG employers getting out of hand (Ranting post)

I'm at Wk 36+3 today, delivering baby on the 28 Aug. 2 days ago, my hubby informed me that his company is converting him from job agency contract staff to perm staff after serving them for coming 7 months by 31 Aug. This conversion comes with a $200 increment, but we have to give up his paternity leave. Mandatory paternity leave according to advisory given to us, he is entitled to 28 Aug to 31 Aug period, 4 days only. His company have informed him that he has to be back to work with them on the 11 Sep, so hubby says day 15 onwards my confinement i'll have to manage on my own if i dont want our family's help (i only wanted my hubby to assist me, not even our parents). I've made a statement to my hubby, i've seen confinement nanny fly kite on the employer's family, but never seen baby's father fly kite on the FTM 😂 I've helped hubby with phone calls to MOM, MSF Profamily department, even a visit to MP yesterday after my KKH visit, all done in one day trying to get an answer to our entitlements. Yesterday I just calmed myself to go to bed early, but this morning i'm so depressed that i broke down alone at home.. I've also lost my job this month as well, and more things just came crashing. When we employees have served employers for more than 3 months and our entitlements are being revoked, i feel being taken advantage of. For my husband's case, he wants his perm contract and feel that i'm not being supportive by compromising.. But i'm a human, so how does he expect me to behave? Now he's telling me how important cash is to us to sustain the family.. But i'm telling him only one word "terminate".

It depends on what was also stated in the contract and once signed it will be considered agreed upon. However, if it is indeed against MOM Law then where possible actions will be taken. Unless as per I mentioned agreed upon employee and employer.

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Should I or Not ??

Hi mommies, I would like to ask should I induce or not cause according to my doctor , i need to induce in my 38 weeks .. May I have mommy's opinion ??

Actually can ask ya. At least you get an answer. I also asked my gynae if can induce instead

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Subsided route for delivery and private room?

Wondering if there is an option for mommies who are going for a subsided route for delivery and private room? Unplanned complication for my pregnancy and may need to opt for cesarean, but i wish to stay at air-conditioning room either A or B1. Thanks.. KKH singapore

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Postpartum Necessities

What do you guys pack in your hospital bag? Do I need to buy nipple cream, nipple shield, perineal cleansing bottle? I'm so lost right now please help 😭

Comb, Kotex overnight panties (for discharge day), skincare and charger. I brought along perineal spray but didn’t use.

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Does this means baby is coming real soon?

Been shitting a lot lately… some is watery some is hard. Is my baby otw?? Earlier thn expected??

Not sure what you are saying

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Week 33, belly feels numb and tingly but baby still moving

Anyone experienced this? I checked with my gynae and she said to monitor baby’s movements. As long as still moving its ok. But wondering if anyone else has similar experience.

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20 ish more days to go I’m so scared!!!!!!!

hi mommies. Just want to ask if my baby is still in breech. Will I still be feeling those contractions? And will my water still break naturally?im so scared!! I don’t know what to prepare for… a few days ago water came out of my vag , rushed down to the hospital and the nurses said it was probably pee :,) would love to hear some of ur birth stories!’!! And what do I prepare in my hospital bag if it’s for a c sec? #firsttimemom

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Face skin keeps getting dry

Hi mummies, its my first pregnancy, in my 13 weeks and i realize my face skin has been peeling around my face area. Sometimes i use moisturizer it gets better but some days it still dry and skin will peel. Is it normal to be this way?

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IVF Case- 8 weeks but scan measures 7 weeks and no heartbeat. Any hope?

We came back to the clinic today for our 2nd ultrasound. Our first one was 2 weeks ago, and scan showed GS and was 6 weeks 2 days by then. Today scan, baby measures only 7 weeks and no heartbeat detected on TVS.💔 We were asked to come back next week for follow up scan. I’m still hoping for the best and trying to be strong. Is there still any chance for our baby to develop and have heartbeat by next week?

TapFluencer

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Hello Is it safe to drink the tea with attached pic ingredients during pregnancy?

Date tea during pregnancy

Hello
Is it safe to drink the tea with attached pic ingredients during pregnancy?

Astragalus is not safe for pregnancy

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