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Birthclub: May 2023

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Bloody show since 28 Apr (Fri), but no contractions yet

Hi moms! How common is this, bloody show yet no contractions after 3 days+. I read online that it’s possible to last up to a week (how common is this?) I can’t wait to see my LO!! So I’m just praying for contractions to happen soon.. Also, would there be a possibility that this lasts beyond a week? #firsttimemom #39_weeks

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Hi parents, do you do journalling with your kids?

Create bond with kids

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TheAsianParent 23rd Anni Exclusive Giveaway??

Did anyone receive this from TAP?

TheAsianParent 23rd Anni Exclusive Giveaway??
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Depression/Suicidal

I have 2 under 2. Felt mentally,emotional, physically exhausted. The fact that i just moved in means on top of taking care babies alone without parents / in law help, i need to cook and tidy up the house. Want husband to help but he have been getting little rest, and when he shared to his friend he slept late after reaching home, his friend are shock. And that comments make me think i have burden him. Child get sick back to back for four months, idk if from playgrp or its because im a useless mom that doesnt kmow how to take care of babies or useless mom that doesnt know how to keep the house clean. Newborn often get sick when the toddler is sick. Eversince the newborn got sick, i scared to give breastmilk because i afraid she got dehydrated because she will get tired to suck while sick so i give formula. Then after back to back sick, she got constipated, so struggling with my breastmilk , i wake up evwry 1 to 2 hr to makesure she drink so she is well hydrated still yet get constipated. On top of struggling to try to help newborn every hour, milk keeps drop due to sleep deprive, thoughts of messy house, playing with toddler, cooking. And i hate all the negative comment thats was thrown to me like im useless mom useless wife , whereby ive tried my best to take care of everything despite lacking of sleep eating and all. I just feel like giving up

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Are you the mummy who posted something similar but regarding bm? If yes, please do give them bm while they are sick, the antibodies in our bm will help them instead. Does your household income & space allows for a helper? If so, can consider getting one so she can at least help you offload household chores and help with kids when they are sick. It’s very normal for kids to get sick in school, it also helps them build up their immune system so please don’t put the blame on yourself. You are doing a good job trying to provide whatever you can for both your kids. You didn’t leave your kids, you are still providing and caring for them despite your overly exhausted body and soul. You are a great mom and nobody have the right to put you down by their words because they are not going thru what you’re going thru daily. Ignore the negative comments, distant from them if you need to. If travelling is not an issue for you (I’m not sure where you stay), can check out thefuncove on Instagram, I always drop my lo there when I need to run errands or have a break doing nothing. Go for self love and me time, take a break. You deserve all the pamper you need! Drop the kids off for a few hours and enjoy, eat what you love. Just remember you are a wonderful and strong mom! You will get thru this! 💪🏻
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2.5 months not pooping

Hi, my L0 will be turning 3 months in a few days time but its been 2 days since she last poop. Is this normal or should i be worried? Please advive FTM here

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depression

i feel like i'm sinking into depression after giving birth... pregnancy was tough, high risk, hosp visits every 2 weeks, i was working ft and had a pt job, my husband didnt contribute much towards my appointments/ preparing for baby... he didnt even give me money for expenses. he MIA 2 weeks after i gave birth, came back home with tattoo, caught him cheating on me thrice as of now. want to divorce but he owes me $10k but fat hope of getting my money back lol. now he will call me "fucking dog" he likes to play victim. tells me he doesnt care about me. i wanted to kiss baby and he pulled and twisted my wrist that is already hurting from carrying baby a lot. punched my arms too. i hate him to the core. finding strength to walk away from this relationship.

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Baby shakes head very quickly

Hi, my LO is 3mo and recently she has been shaking her head. Usually at night/morning, it’s not the hungry type of shaking but it’s like looking left and looking right but very quickly, wanted to ask if any other LO does the same too? We notice such behaviour starting around 2mo, is it infection? She is eating and sleeping well, pee is okay and poop every 3-4 days. #firsttimemom #pleasehelp #firstbaby #FTM

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Pregnant or irregular period?

Hi mommies, currently 6 days late for my period. I am currently about 4 months postpartum, had my first period at around the 2/3 month. Is it possible that I am pregnant again? Or just irregular period? I've not taken any test yet as I don't want to get hopes high for being pregnant. TIA!

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my first skool 180 PG at boonlay?

Hi mummies! Any reviews for my first skool 180 at boonlay? Playgroup level

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Hunger cues

Are hunger cues (eg. turns head to side when carried etc) still valid for babies 3mo and above? My almost 3mo baby doesn't seem to show these as much as before and I just feed him every 2.5hours. Is it okay to feed him based on this interval? I am feeding EBM so i need to prep in advance.

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