Birthclub: May 2023

dear mummies #firsttimemom here went for cervix check last fri was 1cm dilated today i'm 39 weeks and feeling only belly tightening, mild backaches, pressure on pelvis so anxious and want baby to come out soon🥲

Hi moms! How common is this, bloody show yet no contractions after 3 days+. I read online that it’s possible to last up to a week (how common is this?) I can’t wait to see my LO!! So I’m just praying for contractions to happen soon.. Also, would there be a possibility that this lasts beyond a week? #firsttimemom #39_weeks

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I have 2 under 2. Felt mentally,emotional, physically exhausted. The fact that i just moved in means on top of taking care babies alone without parents / in law help, i need to cook and tidy up the house. Want husband to help but he have been getting little rest, and when he shared to his friend he slept late after reaching home, his friend are shock. And that comments make me think i have burden him. Child get sick back to back for four months, idk if from playgrp or its because im a useless mom that doesnt kmow how to take care of babies or useless mom that doesnt know how to keep the house clean. Newborn often get sick when the toddler is sick. Eversince the newborn got sick, i scared to give breastmilk because i afraid she got dehydrated because she will get tired to suck while sick so i give formula. Then after back to back sick, she got constipated, so struggling with my breastmilk , i wake up evwry 1 to 2 hr to makesure she drink so she is well hydrated still yet get constipated. On top of struggling to try to help newborn every hour, milk keeps drop due to sleep deprive, thoughts of messy house, playing with toddler, cooking. And i hate all the negative comment thats was thrown to me like im useless mom useless wife , whereby ive tried my best to take care of everything despite lacking of sleep eating and all. I just feel like giving up

Hi, my L0 will be turning 3 months in a few days time but its been 2 days since she last poop. Is this normal or should i be worried? Please advive FTM here

i feel like i'm sinking into depression after giving birth... pregnancy was tough, high risk, hosp visits every 2 weeks, i was working ft and had a pt job, my husband didnt contribute much towards my appointments/ preparing for baby... he didnt even give me money for expenses. he MIA 2 weeks after i gave birth, came back home with tattoo, caught him cheating on me thrice as of now. want to divorce but he owes me $10k but fat hope of getting my money back lol. now he will call me "fucking dog" he likes to play victim. tells me he doesnt care about me. i wanted to kiss baby and he pulled and twisted my wrist that is already hurting from carrying baby a lot. punched my arms too. i hate him to the core. finding strength to walk away from this relationship.

Hi, my LO is 3mo and recently she has been shaking her head. Usually at night/morning, it’s not the hungry type of shaking but it’s like looking left and looking right but very quickly, wanted to ask if any other LO does the same too? We notice such behaviour starting around 2mo, is it infection? She is eating and sleeping well, pee is okay and poop every 3-4 days. #firsttimemom #pleasehelp #firstbaby #FTM

Hi mommies, currently 6 days late for my period. I am currently about 4 months postpartum, had my first period at around the 2/3 month. Is it possible that I am pregnant again? Or just irregular period? I've not taken any test yet as I don't want to get hopes high for being pregnant. TIA!

Hi mummies! Any reviews for my first skool 180 at boonlay? Playgroup level