fight or flight?

would you choose fight the feeling of hurt and stay married or flee and end things right now before its too late? si husband, mabait naman pag walang topak. pero kumikitid ang utak pag humaharap na sa challenges ma pa simple man o mahirap. masipag kung gugustuhin pero tamad sya where it counts. plus sinabihan ka pa na wala syang pakialam sa nararamdaman mo at pinagtitiisan ka lang nya. home situation niyo, separate living situations dahil nagttrabaho si hubby. you have a baby daughter living with you, husband doesn't give monthly budget. ikaw na nagaalaga, ikaw pa bumubuhay sa anak mo. lubog pa kayo sa utang. what would you choose? what are the things that you would consider to think about?