My wife is very hot tempered and she like to hit me when she lose her temper. She will dig her fingernail into my skin and sometimes she will slam my head against the wall. I don't want to hit her back. I love her. I believe she loves me too. How can I calm her down. And stop her from abusing me like this.

I'm into this and I feel very sorry for my husband. I cannot control my anger after I gave birth to my firstborn.. I think that is a part of my postpartum deppression. She needs to unwind, she feel boring, she needs someone to talk, she needs someone to listen.. thanks to my very supportive family, my mum, my brothers and sister, my child and also to my husband for their patience and understanding.. now I'm slowly recovering.