My wife is very hot tempered and she like to hit me when she lose her temper. She will dig her fingernail into my skin and sometimes she will slam my head against the wall. I don't want to hit her back. I love her. I believe she loves me too. How can I calm her down. And stop her from abusing me like this.

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I'm sorry to read this. It's not normal, your wife needs help with her temper. Discuss with her about this that it's not helping the relationship. Can consider counselling

ABUSE IS ABUSE. REGARDLESS OF WHAT SEX Get out of while you can. Cut all contact. You deserve better. Abuse is not love. Both Zebras and Tigers can’t change their stripes.

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Please consult a good doc. It's not for you but for her own safety. In anger she might start hurting herself too. Be compassionate and strong. You will sail through this.

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do you know that a woman is a man's reflection? Even tho you said you love her, maybe you didn't show. Remember what you made us feel, what we'll make you feel.

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I feel that you need to seek help from a doctor. She may be hurting you due to her anger. Deep down she might not even remember what she have done during her anger.

this is not normal behaviour. even for hormonal women or someone who is extremely angry. that's abuse. she needs professional help

6y ago

tot agree w/t

This is not good. Whatever reasons you both have, mali is mali. And you know that it can get worst. And your kids might adapt the same manners.

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Did she just gabe birth? If yes, she's suffering from postpartum depression that's why she acted that way. If not, talk to her about your side

She needs some marriage and even parenting counselling. Might as well that hitting her child in the future would be a lot easier to her.

yeah for.sure that it s not.love anymore. . when you met her in the pass . she was not.like that. and you were in.love . what is it niw?