When is it safe to have sex again after delivering? What if i am/or hubby is ready but worried about the pain? How do i initiate this...

The recommend period to continue sex after delivering is 6 weeks. You should also consult with your gynae if you are 'ready' to continue. You may feel dryness and slight burning feeling IF you had natural birth. Do let your husband know your concerns. It's best if things goes at a slow pace in the begining to prevent anything uncomfortable feelings. Get lots of foreplay to simulate.