Mood for sex

I’m a FTM too. Initially during early first trim, my husband was worried and didn’t want sex too. But around 8 weeks, at my appt with the gynae, and when he’s there with me, I asked the gynae whether it is safe to have sex and whether there’s anything we need to be careful of. The gynae said it’s generally safe unless at later trimesters if i have low placenta. But if no doctor says i have low placenta, then sex is safe. Heard from the horse’s mouth and we started having sex again. Am still having sex about once every week or two weeks.

20 weeks and we’re still doing it regularly each week. Initially, it took him awhile to adjust because of baby but I told him I’m still me and we still need our we time. My bump still small so we do the same as we used to. I also told him everything is changing and I need him even more now.

Lol not necessarily need to wait, it depends on how comfortable both of you are. Let him know it’s the hormones and need to work something out. If you’re in your first or second trimester it’s still early to stop having sex imo.

I’m also a FTM and so far we only had sex 2-3 times since I got pregnant till now @ 32 weeks. He’s afraid he will hurt the baby and not because he’s not interested. Maybe yours feels the same way too?

I am ftm too. My husb is so scared that he will hurt the baby:.. I assured him that he won’t hurt e baby… usually Husb just need some assurance… can try speaking to him about it..

Tell him he has to wait for a few months after you give birth because of confinement and dry spell then maybe he don’t want to wait that long 😂

Buy a sex doll? Or hire people