6 months old baby chooses MIL over me

When I went to fetch baby yesterday and I took baby over from MIL, baby started crying and stretched her arms towards MIL. I was so sad that baby chose someone else and doesn’t want me, I cried the whole night :( I felt angry and sad and kind of hated my MIL and baby. I feel like I put in so much effort to take care and play with baby.. yet she choose someone else :( I know she’s just a baby but I can’t help to feel this way... am I crazy? ? I told hubby I want to send baby to infant care instead to separate baby and MIL, and he thinks I am ridiculous.. am I? ?

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Aiyo.. u have a lifetime to bond with her and opportunities aplenty. Your baby is always gonna be yours, not MIL’s. Jealous is okay but need to remind yourself in another perspective your baby is blessed to have so many ppl love her and wanna take care of her.