Thoughts in weightloss

What are your thoughts on husband that demands you to watch your diet or ask you to exercise? You're on your 2nd month postpartum, breastfeeding hunger. Mention about your overhang tummy which i googled its normal for csection mama's ? Do you feel demotivated in a sense or its a boost for you to lose weight?

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be kind to yourself. u just give birth. every woman heals differently..men don't understand. tell him to support you and keep nasty comment to himself. Prioritize you and baby wellbeing first. and u doing the best by giving your baby breastmilk. nothing beat that wholesomeness of human milk. don't rush to bounce back. enjoy giving that little one the best u can. be healthy for u and that little one. I'm in my 9 mths breastfeeding, and I can understand that hunger pangs. but I won't stop eating healthy and extra to produce the best milk, and that bond while feeding my baby- priceless. that tummy hanging is your battle scar. I have all my kiddos thro czer.. and I still have that bit of tummy hanging. 7 layers of your tummy cut to bring that joy out to the world, and all he cares about is your aesthetic appearance? I only started walking 30 mins ard the neighbourhood after my 6 mths. the inner wound needs to recover properly and just be comfortable with urself.. self love is LOVE

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Being two months postpartum and breastfeeding, it’s completely normal to feel extra hungry—your body is working hard to nourish your baby! That overhang tummy you noticed? Totally normal for C-section mamas; it’s your body recovering and healing. 💛 As for a husband reminding you to watch your diet or exercise, it can feel different for everyone. Some might feel motivated, while others might feel a bit pressured or demotivated, especially with all the postpartum changes. The key is balance and gentle encouragement rather than strict rules. If you’re looking for guidance on postpartum weight management, programs like Eureka Wellness in Singapore offer safe and personalized solutions for mamas, helping you lose weight gradually while staying healthy, especially during breastfeeding. You can check out their program here:https://eurekawellness.sg/ Read their one of their article here: https://eurekawellness.sg/lose-weight-for-wedding/

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As a new mom recovering from a C-section, I can totally relate. I’m only 2 months postpartum and still trying to adjust — between healing, breastfeeding, and sleepless nights, my body feels like it’s been through a lot. I have the overhang tummy too, and after some research, I’ve learned it’s completely normal. Honestly, if my husband pressured me to diet or exercise right now, it would feel discouraging. Support and patience mean so much more during this stage. I'm focusing on healing first — the rest can come later.

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Honestly, at 2 months postpartum, especially while breastfeeding, your body is still healing and it’s normal to have an overhang tummy after a C-section—it takes time. 💕 If a husband pushes too much, it can feel demotivating, but gentle support and encouragement work better. Focus on recovery, bonding with your baby, and nourishing yourself first—weight loss can come later at your own pace. 🌸

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Should have lost him along with the placenta tbh. What a living and breathing red flag 🚩 Also what all the other women said! Take care of urself physically, mentally and spiritually so u can care for baby the best!

I would tell him to back off. You need to eat to produce food for his child. You will lose weight when the time is right and he needs to accept it

I would be offended and tell him off.will tell him it's normal and priority is babycare.tummy will take a while to go back to normal.

thats nonsense. 2 months postpartum we barely even alive.

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if it isnt one sided, could b gd time spent tgr