R/s with hubby
What was the most difficult thing you felt you and your hubby had to go through postpartum or during the pregnancy? Asking as a 26w ftm. We fight alot now because I feel he’s not ready but I always wonder if anything will change or even get worse after my kid is born.
Communication and Understanding was the most difficult thing I felt so that's basically daily necessity. We went to Singapore Counciling Centre and get it sort out. My husband learnt to see things from a different perspective though he now says counselor will only side with the ladies. 😅 - Was my husband not ready? yes, play games all the time, 0 communication after dinner - Was my husband hands on during postpartum? No, he reasoned that since there is confinement lady, why need his help? that is the purpose of paying for confinement lady wat - did I get postpartum massage? No and my blocked milk duct was so bad, my boobs were hard as rock. my milk supply went to 20ml. can you believe it? and my mil exclaimed "huh so little ah" I cried. i decided to spend on myself on self care and paid for tummy massage. too late for that but it did help a tiny bit I feel I think Pregnancy and postpartum does make our emotions 10x worse. but remember, your family, your friends are there. Talk to them too and just let it out, cry it out and I pray that you will feel better in no time.
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