What skill do you have as a mom that YOU feel makes you a 'good' mother?

Hmmmm..... i must say the exceptional ability to be patient, firm and loving simultaneously. The ability to understand and educate your child when tantrums starts and when its the acceptable age to start the spank/disciplining when you think its time. And when you feel you are impatient dealing with your children, always soul search and tell yourself that you are doing this to educate your little child to grow into a well-mannered individual.