What made you decide that you want another child? With the stress that I went through with pregnancy, and now, taking care of the baby, it seems that I'm just too exhausted and wouldn't want to go through that ordeal again.

I've two daughters with 10 years pagitan. I was ok with having a daughter until my grandpa died. I saw my mom and her siblings (9 of them), grieving. But at least they had each other. After that I started pleading to the LORD for another child so that my first daughter will not be alone when we're gone. But I do get you Ajie, pregnancy and giving birth is a reeeally hard job. I still want another baby though, but since I'm over 40, adoption is an option for me. 😊