What to consider when entering into a relationship? Maaring gustong gusto mo na siyang sagutin, magpaligaw, manligaw o magsettle down pero wait muna. Let us share something about things to consider.
a. Think of future things not just your present romantic excitement (in other words "kilig").
Based on studies, romantic excitement or kilig can last anywhere from 6 months to 2 years. Kung totoo man ito, still it happens. Our feelings might be temporary and can be rekindle but let us think of our future circumstances if we decide to be with the person. Maaring kilig na kilig ka ngayon pero paano ang future mo.
b. Know the person's character before making a lifetime commitment.
Mas magandang kilala mo muna siya. What is his or her character? This can be done through a considerable amount of time. Sino siya sa harap ng maraming tao, sa bahay nila, sa kaibigan o kung saan man.
c. Make sure his/her calling will not conflict to yours.
We hope that the person has the clarity of his/her calling.
Relationships complement each other’s callings. Know your mission before you seek a mate.
d. Sense of responsibility.
Responsable ba siya? If you plan to marry now, make sure that both are responsible to take care of everything. If you are the man, your future wife will under your authority. In fact, she will leave her household and will be with you. Ikaw ang tatayong "tatay" ng pamilya niyo at magiging "tatay" ka rin sa asawa mo.
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Erizza Tampon