HOW TO MANAGE A NEWBORN AND HELPER AND BEING FTM??

Stay at home Mommies with a newborn and a toddler attending sch , how do you guys manage everything? How do you manage your expenses depending on the money given by your husband? How do you guys manage housework with a growing baby. Don’t have support on both my side n husband side, unless emergency then can leave at his sister house. Other than that, I’ll be the full time care taker. Due in a week. How do yall tc of a baby, handle a toddler (who attends school too) , house work, cooking etc etc etc: pls advice. Worried that I might lose my head. Not keen on taking helper

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Same toddler in childcare, newborn, no helper. My hubby works shift and so he is often the one doing the laundry but I'm still the one folding cz can't trust him to fold properly 😅. We kind of have an unspoken agreement tt whenever one of us is not handling any kid (when toddler is in sch and baby is sleeping or with either of us) we'll do some cleaning, be it vacuum, dishes etc but of course I'm still the one doing more cz I have a certain way of arranging things. We engage part time helper every 2 weeks to deep clean the house. Yes it gets exhausting for me whenever he's not home and I've to handle both kids alone but u'll get a hang of it. Expenses wise, we're alright cz I'm actually working (currently on maternity leave) so no issues financially. For the main baby essentials like diapers etc, my hubby pays. For me, I'll just buy whatever else within my means (can't help scrolling online while breastfeeding!😅)

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