Hi! I was supposed to take my doctorate degree this year kaso naantala kasi I'm pregnant. I'm just 23 years old and like you, I have so many plans with my life. Since I've been a scholar for a long time, super taas ng expectations sakin di lang ng family ko, kundi mga taong nakakakilala sakin. Pero here I am, pregnant. Hehehe.
Now here's the thing that I learned - your life is not a mess nor ruined just because you got pregnant at young age. Nauna lang talaga dumating si baby sa buhay natin. I'm not saying this to justify what we've done, pero andyan na yan eh. Kung iiyak lang tayo ng iiyak, diba wala rin naman mangyayari. Mapapahamak pa si baby so the best thing to do (for me) is to motivate yourself, na kahit nabuntis ka ng wala sa plano, you can still achieve your dreams. Mas okay nga actually kasi in the next years of your life, you have a baby that will support you no matter what.
Yun kasi yung medyo mahirap pag plinano natin yung life natin, na when there is an unexpected thing that happens that can hinder our plans, we tend to lose our balance. Nalulungkot tayo ng todo pero promise, things will be fine in the end. Hayaan mo na yung mga negative na maririnig mo and use it as a fuel to strive harder for your future. God bless you!
Magbasa pa
