Seriously I duno why my husband get more and more dumb and I super hate him now. He can argue with me that he is right that he use a dirty pail which I used to soak dirt out from the washing machine and said that he use detergent to clean and use it to withdraw water from the baby bath tub and said that he don't want waste water. I angry and told him not to use that dirty pail and he keep argue back and said that it's clean and he wash it, my son had eczema and I don't want it to affect his skin lo~ am I wrong?

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Actually, I think it is related to upbringing not common sense. My pils use one cloth for everything from wipe table, floor, cupboard, shoes and hand after washing. They used same pail of water that soak clothes for days and pour into washing machine to wash the same load of clothes to save water. His clothes always got a smell which I don't understand why until I see how his family wash clothes. One pail for washing window, throwing all kind of rubbish to soak meat/veg for cooking. My Husband used to do that and took me 9 years to correct him. Until now he still don't understand why I got 3 different clothes/pail for different part of house as his mother used the same cloth/pail for everything for years.

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8y ago

Same~ I keep telling him I need different pail for different things, I even bought small pails for him to wash soaks and got myself a pails for my undergarments and one more pail for him to soak his clothes if needed and he complain toilet got so many pails, haiz , it's so simple and need to tell so many times, he used to help me wash my clothes and undergarments until I saw he wash his with mine and his soaks, I told him not to help me wash ever again ~