Minta pendapat

Kalau sy, sy suka bekerja! Hahaha Bagi sy, waktu bekerja tu adalah masanya utk sy nak grow and see outside world. Otak berkembang, tahu keadaan sekeliling, boleh get opinions from other moms where to send our kids utk better education etc. For me, I taknak bare minimum kan my kids. I taknak dia 24/7 with me. I want my kids to learn to be independent and pandai bawa diri. Pandai bergaul and not just need me all the time. Bila bekerja, I can have my own money as well. I can as well inspire my kids like look your mom is somebody, and even she’s working she still manage to grow her kids amazingly, anak2 pun mampu cemerlang etc. This is what I got from my mother as well. My mom is a career woman. I sgt inspired with her. Eventho she’s working, she manages her time and financial greatly! She sent me to classes utk develop my skills. Taekwondo, Violin classes, sports activities, British Council, boot camps itu ini, mmg banyakla exposure yg my mom bagi dekat kami sejak kecil. It’s because her colleagues byk share with her opportunities utk hantar anak2 ke sana sini. Kalau duduk rumah maybe she wouldn’t know that much I suppose. There was also one phase in our life where my dad actually got scandal. My mom was sad but at least, she is independent! She kesah pulak? Like hello, she earns better, she has a great career, and she raise her kids so well. At the end, my dad mmg insaf and merayu pujuk balik my mom. Luckily my dad pun mmg seorang yg baik. Tak pernah culas pun tanggungjawab. Cuma biasalah kot, ada waktu dlm hidup yg rasa “kaya dan mampu” so try nak menggatal. Mmg makan tak habis la hahahahahaha What makes my mom strong at those time? Her kids and her career for sure. Something yg you owns. Now dah pencen, anak2 semua berjaya. Semua anak2 pun ada career and profession yg hebat. Earnings anak2 semuanya 5 figures. My mom pun retire with a very strong financial. Every year 2-3 kali dia vacation overseas yer! Either with my dad, her colleagues, geng mengaji etc. Setiap pagi jumaat bfast hotel dgn geng mengaji/colleagues pencen dia 😂 Oh ya, when kami anak2 reached 25 years old, she called us and bagi kami buku akaun. Rupanya masing2 utk kami she saved up beratus ribu utk kami anak2 sejak kecil. Masing2 dapat ratusan ribu seorang 😆 Tapi since kami masing2 pun have our own career and income, we buat dunno je dgn duit2 tu and benda keep growing. Setiap tahun dividen meningkat. And I wanna do the same for my kids. Now pun dah start exposing myself utk find kat mana education platform yg best2 utk anak2. I love career life so much. And I wanna inspire my kids just like how my parents did for us.

sya mengandung 8 bulan dh berenti kja sbgai pekerja sarang burung,lpas bersalin sya nk fokus kpada anak je dn jdi house wife,pernh tnya suami tkpa ke klau tk kja,dia ckp mna2klau rsa tknk kja pun tk pa,slgi dia mmpu dia usaha,tpi klau sya nk kja pun terpulang,skrng ank sya dh nk msuk 3 tahun, mcm2 bnda je tk ckup bkan tak bersyukur tpi sya ksian tngok suami kdang duit gaji tk ckup,skrng niat dia nk beli kreta ,duit byar kepala kreta tu dh ada,tpi skrng kmi orng tngh fkir nk buat rumah,sya ksian tngok dia kna buat tu lh inilh,sbb kta orng msih sebumbung,Dan pernh bergaduh dngan orng rumah,Kes kena tuduh tk beli brng dpur,😔sya menangis mnta buatkn pondok kecik asalkn boleh duduk dngan anak dn suami,skrng sya Cuba cri kja tak ksah cleaner ke jnji ada pkai bntu suami,tpi suami sya tk prnh mengeluh pun,sya je rsa tertekan duduk srumah dngan orng,sbb tu sya decide nak kja blik..

Soalan sis ni dah nampak jawapan yg sis ke arah taknak bekerja. Jadi batalkan jelah niat tu sebab semua yg sis mention tu negative2 belaka, hadap jem, gaji tak seberapa. Boleh kita nk try bekerja tp kita kena ada positive vibes waktu nk mulakan tu. Itulah yg mendorong kita utk teruskan tanpa berbelah bagi. Kalau awal2 sis dah negative vibes, akan buatkan sis lg stress, hilang semangat utk kerja & hari2 bekerja sis akan murung.

da discuss dgn husband bab ni tak?, kira anak sapa jaga?, husband ke?, sbb bila ckp susah nak bhenti tuh confuse juga nak jawab. saya pun kena paksa dgn org sekeliling utk kerja tapi saya taknak, saya fikir bila anak da besar sikit, bole handle nak kerja sendiri je la. at least still ada masa dgn dia n kalau apa2x urgent, bole cuti mcm tuh je. maybe awak kena discuss lagi dgn husband mcm mana. atau awak kerja dgn husband ke,sbb kerja sendiri kan.

sebelum nak masuk kerja sis dah kena tahu siapa yg akan jaga anak. kalau husband jaga, tanya husband betul² boleh ke tak nak jaga sebab husband pun kerja sendiri kan. bincang betul². tak pun sis kerja je dengan husband sis.

Samalah kita sis. Rasa macam nak kerja tapi dalam masa yang sama nak tengok sendiri anak membesar depan mata. Takpe sis boleh cuba buat income dekat rumah. Jadi affiliates ke Ambik order kek/kuih/katering ke

list pro & cons tu sangat la berat belah cons je. pro 1 vs cons 5.. tolak je la puan.. stay kerja kat rumah & keep doa perniagaan husband sentiasa berkat

Puan belum bersedia nak bekerja tu. Cari kerja yg boleh buat dari rumah. Dropship/ bakers dll.