i think you should speak to your hubby directly instead of blaming him. as individuals, we don't always have similar views, especially when it comes to parenting.
if you can, sit down with him and plan about things. share responsibilities based on what is comfortable for both of you. similarly, plan the finances with him as well.
at the end of the day, try and make time for him so that you both feel connected to each other and want to make it work.
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