4 Day Old Baby

Recently just gave birth. My baby is 4 days old and he has not pooped for almost 2 days now. And most people are just telling me that I am not feeding enough even though I am dping it every 2 hours and even my husband just keeps pushing me to do more... I am so tired, exhausted and just so beaten down... just want to sit and cry Is this normal? I am breast feeding him and because my supply is not very good I was told by a lactation nurse to top up with a formula and so I did. My baby and I went for a check up on Monday and they took his blood for a jaundice check and he went crazy crying and screaming. I dont know what to do... I have been breastfeeding now for 4 days and my nipples are all sore and cracked and so I have gone to using hand expressions and breast pumps just to feed. Plus, yesterday my baby had some brick dust in the diaper... Anyone else going through this?

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Follow what nurse advice. Your health is just as important as your baby health. Put breastfeeding issue aside and settle your cracked nipple as well as baby jaundice first. Breastfeeding should be a bonding and loving process instead of just an obligation of a mother. Tell your husband he is the man of the family and his duty is to take care of EVERYONE including his wife. My husband dare not ask me pump pump pump cos I will tell people that he didn't feed me enough that's why my supply no enough.

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