Stress after birth

People are being insensitive. I just gave birth and I’m struggling. I still can’t walk or sit properly and my in laws are saying I’m not doing much compared to others. They’re also saying the other in laws took only 3 days and they’re doing chores. Mil even said she wasn’t this weak then. I get 2 hours of sleep Everyday and no one is helping. I feel like I’m on my own and I’m breaking down. My husband is not being there for me as much as I want to. Am I being too sensitive? Am i taking Too Long to recover?

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Hugs. A lot of people, esp in laws, will comment and have lots of opinions with no help rendered. You just have to be mentally strong and always have this thought, you can only do it on your own, no one will help you. It's a learning curve all new parents will have to go through.