Stress after birth

People are being insensitive. I just gave birth and I’m struggling. I still can’t walk or sit properly and my in laws are saying I’m not doing much compared to others. They’re also saying the other in laws took only 3 days and they’re doing chores. Mil even said she wasn’t this weak then. I get 2 hours of sleep Everyday and no one is helping. I feel like I’m on my own and I’m breaking down. My husband is not being there for me as much as I want to. Am I being too sensitive? Am i taking Too Long to recover?

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R u staying together? If yes, talk to your hub and ask him to talk to his parents... u need a lot of emotional support especially from your hub. Gone are the days where women can just pop and pop like no body biz. If not staying together, tell your hub dont let them come so often as u need rest. I was super whiny to my hub throughout my preg and after labour coz I was super pampered. I don't stay with in laws and I limit their visiting. I told my hub they can only come only when hes around and for a short while coz we need to rest. U just have to stand firm ....

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