mommy divine, it's ok kung ano pinagdadaanan mo ngayon. all parents want their kids to be good. Your love to Sarah is un conditional. But it's about time to let your daughter to live on her own and make her own family. Her support to your whole family was enought for you to stand alone without Sarah . She is done doing everything for your family it's about time to think for herself. She will not be vanish, she still there to support and to look after you. Let her be happy to what her life she want to be. I feel you, I have a daughter also. I do not know what to do if I'll be in your shoe. Your strong, be happy for her.