Hi parents!
Would like to get an input on my situation right now. My boys both started school this year,one is in N2 while the other one is in PG,while i have worries about my first born going to school knowing that he's got separation anxiety,so far his teacher never once complain about him. My second child however is a different story.
My second child is abit more independent,he loves going to school and he's doing pretty well in terms of academic and stuff but i kept getting text from his teacher to pick him up from school everytime he gets cranky. I'm not sure if its normal for teachers to send home cranky 2 years old or is it they cannot handle my child?
I understand if he is cranky plus sick and would pick him up as soon as i can but it became an every week routine. They would say that he's cranky and would want me to pick him up or they would say that he is sick but when we get home he's doing okay. The teacher there would throw in sarcastic remarks here and there and sometimes roll her eyes when i send my kids to school. I always pick my boys up from school before 6 and she would ask me to pick them up earlier,like 4 pm. They would say that my son is cranky and he's crying etc but when i come to pick them up,seldom would i hear him crying.
I'm also a private student,i have to study and i'm home all the time but how can i study when i have to pick my kids up everytime he gets "cranky". I get that teachers get overwhelmed and there are alot of other student they have to look after but just because i'm not working like other parents doesn't mean during their time in school i'm free.
I notice as well that there are other student being cranky but the teacher never ask their parents to pick them up,only my son and i can't help but wonder is it because they're working and i'm not?
Not sure if i should bring this up to the principal,don't want my kids to be treated differently if something were to happen to the teacher. Not trying to change school also cause my kids are comfortable in this school and my cranky son actually likes his teacher. I'm not sure what to do and its keeping me up all night just thinking about this.#adviceappreciated