Ano'ng mas may masamang epekto sa bata?

I grow up not being open with my parents. kasi it's not just the sigaw and the palo. also the sampal, the hila (kung saan mahugot) hila palabas ng house. my dad has anger issues. kahit sa simpleng hindi ko paghugas ng pinagkainan on time he'll punish me. pero hindi siya ganun sa nakakabatang kapatid ko. he's more in favor of him, maybe bc lalake silang dalawa. Afterwards I got very sick, very sick in the head. I developed Anxiety, Depression and Trauma. I had no one that time. so, the best thing I knew since I'll becoming a parent na is that I'll discipline my kids not in a harsh way (I'll correct them in a right way) and I'll make sure na ako yung bestfriend nila. Not other people.