Paano niyo napaliwanag ng maayus sa in laws niyo na combine na lang binyag at first birthday? Kasi nasabi ko na once or twice pero sabi kawawa naman daw si baby namin. Kahit sila na daw sumagot ng binyag pero syempre para mas wais at mas gusto namin kami rin gagastos. Pano ko pa kaya mas mapapaliwanag? Gusto nila konti na lang daw kunin na ninong at ninang. What should I do? Sa side ko kasi natural lang na combine parties. Help please?

Just plainly explain to them na nakapagusap na kayong magasawa and you have decided to combine the celebration of your baby. You may tell them na nakapagcoordinate na din kayo sa suppliers and you think it's the best idea to combine the party this time. I think pag naipaliwanag nyo naman in a nice way, they will not take it against you. Siguro sasama ang loob pero hindi naman magagalit since kayo naman ang parents ng may birthday.

Explain mo lang why you want a combined party for your child, dapat mutual decision w/ your husband and have him explain it too to his parents to make them feel that you have already decided. I think you and your husband should decide on the ninong and ninang. You can ask for opinions but still the decision has to be yours.

Ask your husband to be the one to explain to his parents na yun ang decision ninyong mag-asawa. Discuss mo nalang din kay husband mo na when he explain, tell it in a nice way and sana kahit magpilit parents nya ay huwag sya masway to change yung decision ninyo.

Mommy payo ko lang, sariling pamilya mo ang involve so stand firm kung anong decision nyong mag-asawa. Explain mo lang na you are just being practical at mas madami pa kayong priority like insurances, pang school ng anak nyo in the future, etc.

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