❓️How to Deal with: "Mama, bakit bawal ako? Pero sila pwede?" 😭

🫣Paano nga ba i-explain sa anak mo na ang inyong set of “rules” ay iba sa rules ng ibang parents para sa kanilang anak? EXAMPLE: Nasa mall kayo at sinabihan mo ang anak mo ng “Oh we’re just looking and no buying ha.” Tapos may makita silang ibang bata na, umiiyak, nagtatantrums hanggang sa bumigay ang kanilang parents at binili ang gusto ng anak nila. Tapos nakita ito ng anak mo at tinanong ka ng, “Bakit sila pwede?” PAANO MO ITO IPAPALIWANAG SA KANILA? 🤔

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I barely say No to my daughter every time na nasa grocery store kami but she can only have one. So pag nasa candy isle kmi she'll grab one, then pag nasa ibang isle nman and she wanted something from there, she needs to decide which one she wanted more. Isa lang talaga. If nasa toy store nman at masyadong pricey "she'll say "Mom can I have this for Christmas or for her birthday". Ganun ang setup til now ,and there was never a time na umiyak sya just because she cant have it. She understands. ❤️

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